Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Thoughts After You Move-Out of the Dorms

First off – I would like to apologize for the total lack of posting for quite some time (cough cough an entire month). The last month of college proved itself to be extremely busy. Between working, exams, making time for friends, and planning out a job for the summer, any free time I have had has been used to mindlessly watch Friends instead of doing anything productive. Hopefully, now that I am home and things have calmed down, I’ll be able to post more regularly again.

I officially moved out of Sellery Residence Hall a little under a week ago, and I am just getting around to unpacking all my boxes. As I go through all the things that were housed in my tiny cinder block room in Madison, I’m reminded of the friends and memories I've made throughout the past year. More importantly though, I am beginning to realize some of the important lessons my freshmen year at UW-Madison has taught me.

So here it is – my realizations, what I never knew before I went to college, a list of the things my freshman year taught me:

1. Packing for college is only stressful because you think you need way more than you actually do. It’s not necessary to bring every single pair of shoes you own or every single bottle of Bath and Bodyworks body mist that you’ve accumulated since you were 12. There ended up being SO many things I brought that I never used.

2. Yes the room is small – I remember walking in for the first time and thinking there was no way two people could live in there for an entire school year. As you get used to it though, the room seems bigger. Visitors will think it’s teeny, but you’ll try to convince them you love it.

3. You’re probably not going to be best friends with the people you hang out with the first week. Everyone is scrambling to make friends as fast as humanly possible. Once school starts and everything settles, you’ll find the people you actually click with.

4. There is absolutely nothing and no one forcing you to go to class anymore, so you’ll decide to sleep in instead. Along with this though, you’ll learn that catching up in college is a lot harder and a lot more stressful.

5. Roommate situations are honestly what you make of it. Some people I knew hated their roommate, some people tolerated their roommate, and some were best friends with their roommate. As for me, I lucked out with a fabulous roommate who shared my love of HGTV, and even agreed to watch the Bachelor with me – that’s a pretty great roomie if you ask me.

6. Nap-time becomes almost an absolute daily must – at least for my roommate and I. I’m pretty sure I took an hour nap at least 4 times a week.

7. Sometimes you’re going to have to miss out on the fun. People will want to go out all the time, but if you have a paper due the next day, you’re going to have to decide between having a fun night with your friends or getting a good grade on your paper.

8. People. Take. Photos. Constantly. (Including myself). Be careful of what pictures are taken of you and what ends up on the Internet because family members will question you on it.

9. You will – at some point – miss your family and your home. You’ll miss your bed, your dad’s home-cooked meals, your talks with your mom, or your Harry Potter movie marathons with your sister.

10. Packing is probably the most depressing task of the year (aside from exam week that is). You begin to realize your time in the dorms, living only a few doors down from your best friends, is coming to an end. It’s also pretty stressful. Not only are you trying to pack up everything, but you also have to do it in the middle of exam week.

11. UW-Madison is hands down the best school. It has the best location with the possibility for the best experiences. Whether it’s going to a Badger football game or sledding with Gordon’s lunch trays, there are so many opportunities and traditions that make for the best college memories.

My freshman year was an absolute whirlwind. I met so many great people, made many close friends, and had one the best years of my life. While it was sad to move-out, I cannot wait to see what the next three years has in store. 

Have a great day. Try something new. Go watch Pitch Perfect 2 - it's hilarious! As for me, I hear a strong cup of coffee calling my name.

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